Sohela Ahsan

Poverty Vs Abuse

Dear Shila,

Pretty Lady, my heart, I might be inconsistent in sharing my words. Well, I should halt, take a breath, and write again. What I thought about myself and what happened in my life was okay. I did not regret my mishaps, as I loved belonging to my imaginary world.

However, I had been facing a distressing situation regarding the financial support for my two daughters. What my husband provided us, it wasn’t covering the expenses associated with our daughters' upbringing, education, and overall development. It's a great regret that their so-called father is not only willing to provide adequate financial assistance but also denied my job proposals. A poor fellow, he wants to hold us three stooges in his grip! As their mother, it is my utmost priority to ensure our daughters receive the support they need to thrive and grow. This includes not only emotional and physical care but also financial stability.

I understand that financial situations can be complicated. Therefore, as a graduate, I searched for a respectable job to give additional financial support to my kids. When I received an appointment letter for a job opportunity with a handsome salary, I had eagerly anticipated. I was thrilled at the prospect of being able to pursue a career and regain some financial independence. My daughters utterly screamed with unbounded happiness. They thought we finally got our freedom, and excitedly shared this with their papa. Do you know what happened later?

However, when my husband discovered the job offer, his reaction was shocking and disturbing. He became incredibly angry and aggressive, accusing me of going behind his back and defying his wishes. During a heated argument, things escalated to the point where he slapped me to force me to reveal the contents of the appointment letter.

The pain from the physical act was bad enough, but it's the emotional and psychological toll of this incident that has left me feeling shattered. It's clear to me now that his actions are not only controlling but also abusive.

Shila, I'm at a loss as to what to do next. I feel trapped in a situation where I'm not allowed.

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